dear PARENTS....

Tuesday, 24th Nov 2009

I wonder why is it so hard for us (as children) to transfer our heart, our feeling to our parents. I feel like there's a gap between adults and teenagers. Are they just can't understand us? Or maybe they don't want to understand us?? Is it because we have no frequent communication or daily communication between these two person? Maybe it's because the parents are very busy with their job, go out early in the and get back home at night. Huh, it's a typical phenomena that happen around us nowadays. But for me people are always giving a lot of excuses to escape from being blamed. Right?

When there's is hard time, there's is bless. Yes, that's their wrong, but as children we can't simply blame them. It's not their fault. It's not what they want. They wish to have times with their family, their beloved ones. But they didn't get the time freedom. All they can give is money, sending us to school, giving us some precious things or gadgets and so on. For me, sometimes we have to analysis (muhasabah) back for things we've been through and make an improvement. 

Actually, they don't really know or understand what we want in our lives. They always say "no!", "you can't do it" and so on. They don't want us to make any mistakes. But that's wrong, dear parents. The best way is you must encourage the children to go for what they want to achieve in life and at the mean time you must act as a motivator and an advisor. Let the children make mistakes, and let them stand up once they fall. Failure that makes a person become more mature in life.

Indeed, what I wrote here is just an opinion...

all the good things come from the Almighty, 

and the bad things come from my own mistakes.. =)